Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Talk about what you re going to do on your trip with there is disagreement – have a plan for how to




Everyone one has friends – of one kind or another. We have family friends, online travel accessories uk work friends, regular old friends, facebook friends, imaginary friends, animals who are our friends and some of us even have non-human friends. When you re traveling with friends online travel accessories uk (no matter what kind of friend they are) it s a good idea to set some ground online travel accessories uk rules so you don t ruin that friendship.
online travel accessories uk I made the mistake one time of taking a cruise with two other girls. The three of us shared a single cabin – boy, did that test our friendship. I ve traveled to foreign countries with several different friends and at times have shared hotel rooms and not shared rooms. I ve done weekend road trips with friends online travel accessories uk and learned how to spend a lot of time in a car with other people. Each trip has tested friendships online travel accessories uk in different ways and taught me a lot about how to travel with other people. Here are some of my tips:
Talk about what you re going to do on your trip with there is disagreement – have a plan for how to handle the inevitable disagreement. If you want to go to the pool and the other person wants to go to the beach, how will you handle that? My friends and I handle this by agreeing that we don t have to do everything as a group. If one person wants to do their own thing, that s okay! If everyone wants to get Indian online travel accessories uk for dinner and 1 person doesn t like Indian, they can do their own thing for dinner – we never change the groups plan to accommodate 1 person.
Be flexible – when you re traveling with friends, you have to be flexible with each other. Don t sweat the little things. I have one friend who I travel with and she can literally spend an hour in the shower. It drives me nuts! I just want to get ready and go. I have to just deal with it and let it go or we d never be able to travel together.
Don t pressure your friends to like things just because you do. I love volunteering while I m on vacation and most of the friends I travel with don t. That s okay – and I never pressure them to volunteer with me. I usually volunteer when they re doing something that I m not interested.
Talk about finances online travel accessories uk before you go – how will you handle paying for incidentals on the trip, what happens when one person in the group isn t drinking and the drinks add up on the dinner online travel accessories uk bill, etc.. Talk about what type of places you ll go to eat (you don t want to make reservations at a 5 star restaurant if the other people aren t prepared to pay for it!)
This December I m taking a trip with three other women. I ve traveled with one of them for the past 3 years. It will be quite an adventure and we ll see how the two new women travel. We picked them to join us because they seem to have similar online travel accessories uk interests online travel accessories uk and are easy going – hopefully we were right!
online travel accessories uk During the month of October I m celebrating 1 year on BoardingArea by giving away 1 million points. The contest will run from 10/1/12 – 10/28/12 (please see the terms conditions on the contest home page ) Your first chance to enter will be tomorrow, online travel accessories uk October 1 st , and here s a hint: you ll need a friend, a stuffed friend, and some creativity!
This is a very timely issue for me. I have two friends I travel with and while there are lots of things we like to do that are compatible, online travel accessories uk there are inevitable differences. A couple of us like museums and one s not a big fan. Two of us like sporting online travel accessories uk events while the other doesn t care much about them. One is a very picky eater while the other two can make do just about anywhere. One doesn t mind small group tours, one s not a huge fan and the other wants to know who d be in our small group before signing up! One likes to veg out while on holiday and the others take the view that we can sleep in at home when we re in a foreign country for a limited time we want to get out see what there is to see. Sounds like an impossible online travel accessories uk situation but we ve been on a 12-day cruise (our first trip together!) and spent weeks in London online travel accessories uk and Hawaii for milestone birthdays. Next one of those big trips is not for a couple of years and I m having a hard time getting them to play the points/miles game seriously. One totally refuses. I m hoping that being able to pay for 2-2.5 weeks of hotels on points (maybe with a little bit of cash) that I can convince them to get in the game with me and we can see the world in style.
Otherwise, if it s someone you really want to travel with, you can do as you say, earn as many points/miles as you can and treat the person. I do that with one friend. I usually end up paying for the hotel with my points and cash. that also means that i get the bed and she gets the couch or roll-a-way bed! And she s okay with that since I m the one forking the bill. If she pays cash we take turns on the bed/couch. It works out in the end.
Travel super well w friends bc they are so laid back. I am the one that plans the down to the hour itinerary with the highlighted markers. Hotel/hostel locations and directions. Cost analyst trip of our trip. Copies of every known document.
But as w any friends online travel accessories uk compromises will be made and patience is tested. Best trip lasted 3 weeks backpacking in Europe w girls and worst have been a luxurious planned honeymoon with a man. Still my wonderful husband. You never know what a trip will be like ( different scenarios, online travel accessories uk personalities, breaking points, unintended joys, quiet moments) and that in itself is why you should just dive in and take them as much as u can!!

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